Why You Shouldn’t Wait for the ‘Perfect Moment’ to Schedule Family Photos

Hey, lovely families and busy parents! Let’s talk about a common phrase I hear all the time: “I’d love to book a family session, but I’m just waiting for the perfect moment.”

Ah, the mythical “perfect moment.” You know, that golden day when everyone’s hair is just right, the kids are in great moods, your outfit fits just how you want it to, and the stars align for that magical family portrait. Sounds dreamy, right? But here’s the thing: that perfect moment? It’s kind of like a unicorn… adorable, magical, but unfortunately, not real.

Now, before you roll your eyes at me, hear me out. Life, especially family life, is beautifully messy. Waiting for the “perfect” time usually means waiting forever, because real life is never perfect—and honestly, would we even want it to be?

So, let’s debunk the whole “perfect moment” myth and talk about why capturing the right now is way better than waiting for some imaginary flawless day.

1. Life Moves Fast—Don’t Let It Pass You By

Here’s a little truth bomb: time is flying. You know it, I know it, the kids growing out of their shoes every few months know it. It’s easy to get caught up in the “next phase” mentality, thinking you’ll do a family photo shoot when the kids are older, or when you’ve got that new haircut, or when you finally figure out how to match everyone’s outfits perfectly. But the reality? This stage of life is precious too.

Whether it’s the toddler phase with all the sticky fingers and scraped knees, or the pre-teen phase where they’re “too cool” to smile, or even the season where you’re chasing your little ones all over the place… these are moments you’ll miss someday. So why not capture them as they are, right now?

2. Perfect is Overrated—Imperfect is Real

Let me tell you, as a photographer, some of my favorite family photos aren’t the perfectly posed ones with everyone smiling at the camera. Nope! They’re the ones where kids are being goofy, parents are laughing, and everyone’s a little bit… well, imperfect.

Maybe your toddler has spaghetti sauce on his shirt, or maybe your preteen is sporting a smirk instead of a big smile. Those “flaws” are the things you’ll laugh about later. They’re what make your family your family. So let’s embrace the beautiful chaos, the quirks, and the unscripted moments.

After all, the true magic happens when we let go of the idea of perfection. That’s when everyone relaxes, lets their personalities shine, and we end up capturing the essence of your family. Isn’t that better than a stiff, “perfect” photo where everyone looks a little uncomfortable?

3. “When I Lose 10 Pounds…” Spoiler Alert: You’re Perfect Just as You Are

Let’s get real for a second. I hear it all the time—“I’ll book the shoot after I lose 10 pounds,” or “I’ll feel more comfortable when I look a certain way.” But here’s the thing: your family loves you right now, just as you are. Those extra pounds or that “not quite right” haircut? Your kids couldn’t care less. To them, you’re just Mom or Dad—the person who makes them laugh, comforts them when they’re sad, and loves them unconditionally.

In a few years, when you’re looking back at these photos, you’re not going to focus on those insecurities. You’re going to see the joy, the connection, and the love that you share with your family. That’s what truly matters, and that’s what deserves to be captured.

4. There’s No Perfect Moment, But There’s Perfect Timing

Here’s what I mean by that: there’s no flawless moment where everything falls into place, but there’s a perfect time for family photos—and it’s now. When the kids are little, when they’re moody teens, when they’re off to college—every phase is unique, and every phase deserves to be remembered.

Imagine a photo album where you can see the journey of your family, from chubby cheeks and tiny hands to graduation caps and beyond. Each chapter of your family’s life has its own story, and each story is worth telling. Waiting for “the perfect moment” could mean missing out on these beautiful chapters.

FAQs About Family Photos (And Why the “Perfect Moment” Is a Myth)

Q: What if my kids aren’t in the mood for a photoshoot? A: Believe me, as a mom and a photographer, I’ve seen it all. Kids don’t always cooperate, but that’s part of the fun! I’ve got tricks up my sleeve to get those genuine smiles and capture the real moments, even if there’s a little attitude in the mix.

Q: What if the weather doesn’t cooperate for an outdoor session? A: I’m all about flexibility! If Mother Nature decides to throw us a curveball, we can reschedule or move to my cozy studio. Sometimes, rainy day photoshoots turn out to be the most memorable ones!

Q: Should we try to match outfits? A: Totally up to you! Coordinated outfits look lovely, but so do fun, mismatched ones that show each family member’s personality. Don’t stress too much about it—wear what feels comfortable and true to your family.

Q: Can I bring my pet? A: Absolutely! Pets are family too. Just give me a heads-up, and we’ll plan for some paw-some moments in the session.

To learn more on if bringing your pet over is for you or not visit my blog Can my pet join my family session?

So, What Are You Waiting For?

Still holding out for that elusive “perfect moment”? Let me just say, from one imperfect, beautifully chaotic family to another: don’t wait. Let’s capture the now—the little quirks, the giggles, the silly faces, and yes, even the messiness.

Your family is constantly growing, changing, and evolving. Every phase is precious, and every phase deserves to be celebrated. So why not make today the perfect day to capture your story?

Reach out to book a session, and let’s make some memories together. I promise you won’t regret it. 🌟