How to Include Your Partner and Kids in Maternity Photos: Family Love with a Focus on You

 

Hey, lovely mamas (and the awesome family members cheering you on)!

So, you’re thinking about capturing this beautiful, bump-filled chapter in photos, but there’s one question lingering in your mind: should the whole family join the session? Short answer? Absolutely! Having your partner and kids in your maternity photos can bring a whole new level of warmth, authenticity, and love to your images. Plus, who doesn’t love a photo that captures the beautiful chaos of family life?

But here’s the deal — while everyone is welcome to join in, this session is all about you, mama. You’re the star of the show, and we want to make sure your beautiful, glowing self remains the focus.

Here’s how we can include your family in the session without stealing your spotlight.

1. Set the Tone with a Pre-Session Chat

First things first, we’ll kick things off with a good old chat. This isn’t just any regular photo session; it’s about capturing a unique time in your life. So before the big day, we’ll have a conversation to discuss your vision, what kind of vibe you want, and who you’d like to include in the session. I’ll get to know your family dynamics (a.k.a., who’s the jokester and who’s the serious one), so everyone feels prepared and excited. And don’t worry — I’m a pro at making even the most reluctant participants feel comfortable.

2. Let’s Get Cozy…But Not Too Cozy

If you’re bringing in your partner, sibling, or child, there’s one golden rule: we want those authentic, loving interactions without making it look like a holiday card. The goal here is warmth and connection, not staged smiles and stiff poses. I’ll guide you through poses that keep things natural — maybe your partner’s hand gently resting on your belly, or a quick kiss on the cheek while you share a quiet moment together. And if there’s a little one who loves to snuggle up to their soon-to-be sibling, even better!

Tip: Relaxed poses work wonders. Think of this as cozy family time rather than “photo session time,” and let me capture the magic of those unscripted moments.

3. Keep It Playful for the Kids

If your kiddos are joining in, let’s make it fun! We all know that children and “sit still” don’t usually go hand-in-hand. That’s where the playfulness comes in. I love getting those candid shots of your kids interacting with you and the bump. It could be a gentle kiss on your belly or a funny face that makes everyone laugh.

I’ll bring a few tricks up my sleeve to keep things light-hearted and engaging for them — trust me, I’ve got a whole bag of tricks for capturing kids’ attention, from silly noises to funny games. The goal is to make them feel like they’re part of a special moment, not just posing for another family photo.

4. Outfit Coordination — But Keep it Simple

Let’s talk wardrobe. Coordinating outfits can look beautiful in photos, but there’s no need to go overboard with matchy-matchy styles. Pick a color palette that complements your vibe — soft neutrals, earth tones, or even a pop of color if that’s your jam. Your partner and kiddos can dress in coordinating shades, but remember: you’re the star here. Choose something that makes you feel beautiful, and let everyone else’s outfits work as a harmonious backdrop.

And a quick note for partners: keep it simple! Leave the bold prints and flashy accessories at home. This session is about mama, after all.

5. Embrace the Imperfections

Kids being kids, partners sneaking in kisses, laughter, and maybe even a little chaos? Yes, please! Real moments are what make these photos special. You might have had a vision of everyone standing perfectly still with serene smiles, but sometimes it’s the unpredictable moments that bring out the best memories. So, if your toddler decides to make a silly face or your partner cracks a joke that makes you belly laugh, let’s roll with it.

Maternity photos that showcase the beauty of real family life are chef’s kiss. They remind you of the love and joy surrounding your pregnancy, imperfections and all.

6. Studio or Outdoor — Let’s Set the Scene

Here’s a fun choice to make! Studio sessions give us a cozy, controlled environment where we can get creative with lighting and backgrounds. It’s a lovely option if you want that intimate, classic look, and you don’t have to worry about the weather or crowds.

On the other hand, outdoor sessions add an element of nature and adventure to the photos. If you love the idea of capturing your family against a sunset, a forest, or the beach, the great outdoors might be the perfect setting for you. Plus, outdoor settings can be amazing if you want to give the kids some space to run around and be themselves.

                                                                       

Whichever you choose, we’ll work together to create a setting that feels right for you and brings out your family’s unique personality.

7. Focus on the Connection, Not the Camera

Here’s a little secret: some of the best shots happen when you’re not looking at the camera. Instead, let’s focus on the connection between you, your partner, and your kids. Those sweet moments where you’re laughing, gazing at each other, or just soaking in the love? That’s the good stuff. Don’t worry, I’ll guide you with prompts to bring out those genuine moments without forcing it. And yes, you’ll get a few traditional posed shots, but it’s the candid, heartfelt moments that often end up being the favorites.

8. Make It a Session for Both of You — Or Just You

One final thought: remember that maternity photos don’t always have to include the whole family. Some couples like to keep it intimate with just the two of them, making it a bonding experience as they prepare for the next chapter. On the flip side, you may want this to be an empowering session just for you—a quiet moment to celebrate your journey solo.

Or, if you’re feeling up for it, let’s make it a mix! We can capture those beautiful family moments with your loved ones by your side, and then take a few just for you. That way, you get the best of both worlds — a celebration of family love and a spotlight on your incredible strength and beauty.

                                             

Ready to Capture the Love?

So, if you’re ready to celebrate this momentous time with the people who mean the most to you, let’s make it happen! I’m here to help guide you, keep things light, and make sure we capture both the love you share and the incredible journey you’re on.

The best maternity photos aren’t about perfection; they’re about connection. They’re about celebrating you, the love that surrounds you, and the excitement that lies ahead. So whether you’re bringing along your whole family or keeping it simple, let’s make these memories truly yours. Visit my Maternity Gallery to get inspired!

Reach out to schedule your maternity session today, and let’s capture this chapter with all the joy, beauty, and love it deserves!